Friday, November 23, 2012

So Thankful

I know I'm a bit late with it being a day after Thanksgiving, but there's never a bad time to recognize how thankful I am for everything I have. Despite not having everything I want, I'm still so happy and grateful for everything that I do have.

The thing I am most thankful for this year is my husband. He's such a amazing person and I'm so lucky to have him as my partner in everything. He's always there to laugh at my jokes, listen to me ramble, and to offer a hug when I'm having a bad day. I can't imagine my life without him.

I'm also incredibly grateful for my family, both extended and immediate. My sister and I have grown really close over the years and she's now in the loop about everything. She's always cheering for us and has even offered to be a surrogate if we needed. When we were little and through our teen years we fought constantly, so our relationship has really grown. We talk most days and support each other in so many ways. 

I'm happy that I can celebrate holidays with both of my parents, despite them getting divorced when we were little. I'm glad they both have someone in their lives who makes them happy. I'm thankful that my mom and step-dad decided to adopt my little brother, that my family expanded, and that I got to become a big sister at age 24.

I'm incredibly lucky to also have my in-laws. They are so supportive of everything we have gone through and are always hoping and praying for us. My FIL will drop anything on a given day to help us with a house project or dog sit for us.

I thankful for my two nephews, one who turned five in October, and one who is still cooking in my sister's belly. I love taking our nephew O overnights and having him all to ourselves. Being an aunt really is great.

I'm so happy to have my fur babies. Our two dogs are best buds and get so excited to start every new day. I can't imagine greeting each day with such enthusiasm, so I'm glad to have them to show me it's possible. I love snuggling with my cat and sleep so much more soundly when he is curled up next to me. When he starts walking all over us at 4 AM it's a much different story. In those situations I'm thankful to have a lock on our bedroom door.

I'm thankful I have a rewarding and great paying job. I love teaching children how to communicate and watching their little faces light up when they are successful. Watching children develop and progress is amazing.

I'm also thankful for all of the doctors I have in my life. Even though I would prefer to get pregnant without them, I'm thankful that they are on my team pulling for me. I'm thankful for the personal relationships I have built with so many people on this journey. I'm so grateful for our seven frozen embryos that we get to use starting Monday. I'm so thankful that we can afford and attempt all of these treatments. It may not be fun, but I know it will all be worth it. 

And last but not least my friends. My friends who I met through yoga for fertility who totally "get it". My friends who I work with and can relate to on so many levels, and my friends from growing up. Life without friends would be much less bearable and I'm so thankful to have them all. 

It's posts like these that we all need to revisit on a bad day. I try to remember how lucky I am every day and to appreciate everything I have more than once a year. Some days it's harder than others. 

I hope everyone had a fantastic Thanksgiving that celebrated. If not, I'm glad it's at least Friday for those people who didn't get a few days off this week. 


  1. What a great post! I think you are absolutely right.

    "Despite not having everything I want, I'm still so happy and grateful for everything that I do have."

    I think it is so important for us all to take a step back sometimes and remember to be thankful for everything that we DO have, even if it's not everything that we WANT.

    Good luck as you start your FET cycle!

  2. So wonderful to reflect on all your are thankful for! And, hi from ICLW! :)

  3. So many things to be thankful for!! Happy ICLW!!! Sending many thoughts to you for your FET!!!!

    ICLW #17

  4. Thanks for stopping by my blog! Good luck with your FET.

  5. MOnday!!!!???? Good luck! I really have such a good feeling about this! Your body will be relaxed and ready to incubate those embies!

    And thank God for science and technology--without them (and those doctors) my 1 1/2 children wouldn't be in existence :)

  6. Good luck with your transfer on Monday! And Happy ICLW! :)

  7. So much to be thankful for! I will be thinking of you and your embryos tomorrow. Best wishes for the transfer!

    Happy ICLW.

  8. Your yoga class sounds great - I've had a class before (Pilates I think rather than yoga, I do both sometimes) where the teacher was pregnant and complained about it!

    Thanks for the ICLW comment by the way.